glad that's over

Well... the visitation and funeral went alright. It's all over with anyways.

I did go with him to the visitation and funeral. I got to know a lot of his family more and that's alright with me too. for the most part... they are all down home good people.

You know what my biggest pet peeve is about funerals now days though? WHEN did it become ok to wear what you would wear to a nightclub to a funeral. Don't get me wrong, I don't expect everyone to be wearing complete black or anything like that but please.

To me ... a funeral is about respect for the family and such but heck even the people even in my generation were wearing something they would wear to go clubbin. Maybe it was because I was taught different because I was raised by my grandparents. But something where you can see the boobs and a tank top shirt with a very sheer shirt on top. Come ON!

It was hot but even with me in my new suit I wasn't that bad. Yeah it was all black except for the pink shirt looking thing. It wasn't actually a shirt but it looked like it. To me .. it looked very classy. Terry's girls all wore pants and either a t-shirt or one of them wore the tank top/sheer top thing. I didn't say anything ... they aren't my kids but after we got home Terry and I talked about it but we were both quite ashamed. Heck even a granddaughter of the deceased wore a skirt that was a mini and a shirt that came down in a v-neck showing her boobs.

Oh well not my thing and I'm not gonna bitch about it. At least I looked good and my daughter looked good (who was wearing a nice navy blue dress) that looks ADORABLE on her. I wasn't about to embarrass my boyfriend.